Two sisters from Nigeria I got to know at breakfast this morning. I learned a lot about their lives, how their teachers in college all expected money (bribes) to pass them without them doing any of the work, etc. The shorter sister refused and threatened to turn them in if they didn't let her take her tests, etc, without paying them money. They gave in since her dad was influential. She ended up 2nd in her class, and she REALLY learned the material. Corruption is rampant here. Degrees from the U.S. are valued much more than Ghanaian or Nigerian degrees because employers know that your U.S. degree was really earned and not just paid for with bribes to teachers. She said she had a lot of chores, like doing the laundry - I asked if they had washing machines and they just laughed. It's all by hand. Some days it would take her from 6:00 - 11:00 am to do the family laundry.
We didn't get a picture yet, but we were able to see four of our missionaries sealed this past week. We make it a priority to look for missionaries who have lost parents for whom they can do their temple work; Elders for fathers and Sisters for mothers. But our highest priority is to identify missionaries who have lost both parents and help them do the temple work for their parents, and then to seal the parents, and then seal the missionary to his or her parents. This group had seven missionaries who had lost both parents - about 10%. There is almost always a missionary who knows nothing about a parent or one of the parents has not been deceased long enough for the temple work to be completed. Those can't be sealed at this time. Two missionaries had parents whose temple work was complete. So, being near a temple they were able to be sealed to their parents because as a living person they have to physically participate. The Elder was from DR Congo and we were able to seal his deceased sister too. Who knows when he would be able to be a temple again? The Sister is from Togo and lives closer to Ghana. The parents of other two missionaries needed their temple work to be completed and Paula was able to be baptized for both mothers. The Elder, from DR Congo, was so excited to be sealed to his parents that passed away when he was very young. The Sister, from Cote d'Voire, sat quietly with tears running down her cheeks and after the sealing sat for a long time with her head in her lap, quietly crying. Over and over again we have experiences that emphasize the importance of not taking the opportunity for temple attendance and temple service for granted. I have been very blessed to be able to organize and facilitate this temple work. I have to admit I get a little teary in each of these sealings. |
I love the work you are doing. And I love all the African clothes that Paula wears!
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